You cannot change me, nor can I ever change you. This is a fact – a hard fact that many have yet to learn or accept.
If you want to see change in others, they must want and strive for that change in themselves. Only they have that power.
Likewise, if you want changes in yourself or your circumstances…that desire and drive has to come from you.
Want change? Seek it from within. Plan for it (baby steps) and make it happen.